So we all have been ghosted right? I seem to be Queen of the “ghosting” phenomenon these days. Men seem to just float away from me. M-M is the latest one. I spoke about him a bit in my last post, and things were going really well. Then, POOF! Gone off the face of the Earth with no way of contacting him.
What’s funny is I am so numb to the whole thing now. It’s quite a shame that the “ghosting” phenomenon is happening and so many people are finding it easy to just disappear without no warning or word. It makes me sick to my stomach actually. When did this become acceptable? I feel bad for the online daters out there. I couldn’t have imagined meeting M-M in real life, sleeping with him, and then “poof” he’s gone. I did go a little overboard with the cyber sex with him, but he seemed to be really into it. I ticked all his boxes, he ticked all mine. So what happened? Did he get scared? Did I get too close to his heart and his sexuality? What was it? The absolute worst part of ghosting is that you never know and the “ghostee” always is left with no answers. It’s a shit way to treat people, and it happens way too much.
So, what to do now? I guess pick up the pieces of my heart he touched and move on. I guess in a way I relieved too. We were getting too close to each other it seems. I let myself get carried away with these men online way too often. Every week I seem to be gushing over a new one, only to come back with an empty “ghost” on my phone. What a shit way to treat people.
Anyway, it’s all for the best I suppose. Now I can concentrate on my new job tomorrow with a clean slate. My personal life may be in shambles but at least I can focus on working. Till next time folks, and to all you “ghostees” out there, I feel your pain. Hopefully some dipshit hasn’t broken your heart with their silence. It will get better. It has to. I hope.